Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Oh Katie!

I entitled this Oh Katie, as one of my resounding memories of Katie will always be her saying to me "Oh Clare" whenever we were talking on the phone....I can hear her now.
 
I met Katie when she started dating Dave,we probably met at the party that they did,but we could never pin that moment down - must be the sign of the fun we were having - a theme that continued! We became very firm friends very quickly,but I think Katie was one of those friends that you felt you had known forever. I enjoyed the openess and honestly of our friendship,together with the adventures. I was over the moon when Katie invited me to her and Dave's wedding on Friday the 13th January 2006, and far from the infamous date is was a day of happiess, joy and laughter. It was a day to remeber, a very different wedding - afternoon tea,an art gallery and dinner.
 
I always felt that time with Katie was full. None more so than one of nights out in London. All dressed up we headed off to watch a tango show in Covent Garden,followed my a late dinner in the crazy restaurant (a favourite of Katie,Sal's and mine - god we had some discussions there!) and then of course to kick our heals! We ended up in some club courtesy of a very young Romainian man that we asked where was the place to be was. Of course we had no idea that free drinks all night and no fee entrance = we had met the european mafia! Well, that's what we liked to think as we scarpered back home in a rickshaw at silly o'clock. I remeber us telling Dave the next day that we had had 4 nights out in one.
 
There are so many thougts and memories that I have. I think over them everyday,normally whilst driving with Blondie blaring - far from it being a sad song, there couldn't have been a better song than Atomic to choose to represent her energy and fun,and of course her love of dancing! For me, Katie was a whole friend,someone to share all times good and bad. She supported me through tough times and when I needed someone to reassure me she did. She laughed,danced,talked,discussed,cared,listened and supported. I loved the times with her,Dave and Oscar - just hanging out drinking wine(not Oscar of course! - Katie was far too good a Mum) and putting the world to rights or maybe just laughing at it! The ease that there was with Dave and Katie was lovely and it resonated in their home, I felt at home with them.  It was a pleasure to see Katie become a Mum,something that looked so natural to her,and of course to see Oscar being her total pride and joy.
 
There is so much that I'm sure we could all say,but if I could I would say... thank you Katie for your friendship, I feel lucky to have been your friend and I miss you very much.
 
PS I hope you are dancing!
 
Love Clare x



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